tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8662044508329976245.post1267175446186334668..comments2012-04-10T09:51:43.958-07:00Comments on Hephzibah: Talk Thursday // Love LanguagesSarah Lewiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14320309476740815470noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8662044508329976245.post-48689478306666185902010-05-18T11:40:13.803-07:002010-05-18T11:40:13.803-07:00I tend to be a quality time/physical touch person....I tend to be a quality time/physical touch person. Although, sometimes it depends on who I'm with. I can tend to drift towards acts of service in showing love if I'm not comfortable enough to touch them and we've never had quality time. My lowest is easily giving gifts. Which is why I have gone to a number of weddings and birthday parties and completely forgotten to bring a gift.<br /><br />I don't think the book is MUST read, but it can help. Mike's lowest is quality time, which is what I need. After a number of fights and misunderstands, I finally asked him to read the chapter on quality time. Made a huge difference immediately. It kinda amazes me how something so basic (and kinda cheesy) can make such a big difference in all kinds of relationshipsLydiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02683654198389105980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8662044508329976245.post-60072204667976045892010-05-15T09:26:16.592-07:002010-05-15T09:26:16.592-07:00Sarah dear, you're speaking my language! I am...Sarah dear, you're speaking my language! I am about equal parts touch and words. But I also love gifts, both giving and getting them. So...basically, I can't pick one because I like them all. I'm a loving person, what can I say :)Sarah Chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08530343923143584454noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8662044508329976245.post-80799375012196366922010-05-15T00:30:48.172-07:002010-05-15T00:30:48.172-07:00Words and touch. It's awkward, considering my...Words and touch. It's awkward, considering my stance on taking compliments and accepting hugs.Christopher Mapleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03741006822811763693noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8662044508329976245.post-43762569238776920232010-05-14T13:45:29.533-07:002010-05-14T13:45:29.533-07:00I'm like an onion when it comes to my love lan...I'm like an onion when it comes to my love language(s). <br /><br />I am physical touch. But if you try to physically touch me without giving me words of affirmation first, I will cut off your hand. <br /><br />On the flip side, if you HAVE given me words and then you don't touch me, I assume you hate me. I'm so complex. =) <br /><br />Acts of service, quality time, and gifts all kind of tie in the way I receive love.<br /><br />As far as giving love, I am touchy (in a good way) and I'm getting better about quality time. When I know someone needs it, I try harder to do that for them. <br /><br />(Oh and roommate? You're welcome. =))<br /><br />Stephy, I would say yes, there is a "refined sugar" category. But I assumed that just kind of came with the territory of being a girl? =)Sarah Lewiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14320309476740815470noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8662044508329976245.post-90074158744676801582010-05-14T12:14:16.476-07:002010-05-14T12:14:16.476-07:00Yes, quality time is still number one for me. Act...Yes, quality time is still number one for me. Acts of service ties with physical touch now. I blame this on you... I mean, this is probably an influence of your impact on my life. :)<br /><br />~Adina~Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8662044508329976245.post-49990309651867295012010-05-13T17:11:44.229-07:002010-05-13T17:11:44.229-07:00I heard about love languages a lot growing up but ...I heard about love languages a lot growing up but had forgotten about them! I need to figure out what mine is. Is there a 'refined sugar' category? :)stephyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10047873385595074389noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8662044508329976245.post-89032921597873293202010-05-13T15:45:20.979-07:002010-05-13T15:45:20.979-07:00my love language is gifts, but I always hate to te...my love language is gifts, but I always hate to tell people that because I am afraid it makes me sound materialistic. I'm not. They don't have to be expensive or even cost anything...but it shows that they (the giver) was thinking about me at a certain time and thought to bring me something later. <br /><br />I also love to give them.CerahSeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12630415761274922336noreply@blogger.com